Life with Superwoman aka Lilly Singh

Finally, the moment arrives, am a little bit nervous , talking about Superwoman is not easy, Lilly Singh aka Superwoman the name is enough to give me immense happiness & positivity and much- needed incentive. And yes am also one of those 9 million. I still remember the day when I accidentally stumble on her videos from that day to this day she is constant in my life. This girl I am saluting her, she is outstanding, marvelous and what not. Initially, I didn't like her, but now am her fan. I still can't believe that I watched her all videos within 2 days and then the vlog comes.

Hats off to her, if one say Lilly is so lucky I would say NO, there is no luck here it's a sheer hard work, I watch her vlog daily and my god her day starts with work and ends with work. She is a pro at making funny videos, but also she is a fabulous dancer and my god rapper too.



There are days when I lose my inspiration for my work, but then I watch just one of her video and am all charged up. I always make my brain understand one thing that if your idol is doing soo much work then why can't you. You should also do your task. I have adopted this one habit from her.




Am totally amazed when I see Superwoman's dedication towards her work, I have seen when she is awake till 3 am & she has to go to work or meetings at 8 something, she always stunned me. Here I start pestering when I don't get my sleep.



Experts say 8- hour sleep is necessary for your beauty sleep, but now am like she is beautiful inside out without 8-hour sleep. Oh, one important thing her honesty, oh my god, she is so truthful, I mean many times when things couldn't work out or we won't get things which we prepared for, we start finding excuses, but this girl I never saw her doing this, she openly tells us '' oh yeah I didn't get the call or my audition did not go well '' etc. I better learn this thing from her.

My life with Superwoman is now more productive, better and full of positive vibes. She helped me when I was sad, depressed and confused. She encourages  me to do things which am passionate about. Her passion for her work is commendable seriously. Lilly spread positivity wherever she goes and she made a unicorn island where good vibes are in the air.

Lilly's fans are also superb like her, my fellow unicorns. When I check the comment section of her videos there is mostly +ve comments, no bashing no bad vibes. They are helpful to each other. I just get surprised when I see this. Her fandom is unique and lovely.

Lilly taught me how not to be rude, I never saw her rude behavior with anyone, she is polite to each and every person. This girl is truly amazing. Her bold and blunt nature is dazzling. She talks openly about everything whether its racism or anything love that quality of hers.

how could  I do that Paramjeet and Manjeet, am talking about them so late, Paramjeet will surely gonna scold me lolz '' tu mere bare hun dass ri aa, badi aai firefly'' am sorry Paramjeet. She plays both characters flawlessly. Entertainment and creativity are at the peak.

Superwoman is a school of learning, her every vlog teaches me  a lot of things, and her rejuvenation Sunday that's totally worth it and I learn that some me time is also very much important so the next day you could give your 100% in every task and feel refreshed. If there are so many good things I have learned then there are some cons too the main one is

- Watching her videos again and again
- Losing track of time while watching Lilly's videos
- Forgetting the chores  which I supposed to do
- Morning and night, losing this track, {I know this is same as point 2}

I need to work for above cons.  So this is my life with Superwoman which is happily going and there are many other things which I don't remember yet. Please do share your story and if you don't videos then I suggest you should go and watch. You'll surely love it.

Stay safe
Love
~ firefly 

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A Letter To Father

                          " A  Dad Is A Daughter's First Love''

Dear Papa,

     First of all, happy father's day.  

Most of the time I forgot to say thank you to you for the things that you are doing for me as each day and for the things you had done for me when this world was new for me.

Everyone says that for every child their father is a superhero, well am not agree with this thing, because  superhero  can fail, but a father never fails.

I remember those days when I show stubborn behavior, the days when I troubles you & not trying to understand that why are you saying NO to me. Am sorry for my that conduct. Am recollecting those moments when I vent out my frustration or anger on you, but you still loved me and helped me even though I was acting like a jerk. Thank you for still loving me. Presently, when I see that am not able to manage things with my money,  Now I wonder how did you managed it even with the little amount of funds & still fulfilled my all wishes, at times they are completely useless.

Papa thanks for saving me each & every time, whether it's from mom's anger, from my own inner demons and for everything. There was a time when you let me fall so that I could learn my own lessons. I never recognize your efforts and shows the ungrateful behavior, but you papa my god never complains, if someone does this to me, I start cribbing but I never saw any frown on your forehead. Papa, thank you for providing me everything.

Today Am very delighted that you give me good morals and values because of them today am in this world with chin up. I know when I'LL be trouble, you are in my backup. & I love the way you always treat mom with love & respect,give her the freedom & most importantly loyalty.

 Love

An ingrate child

Some of us says we don't have a father or the one whose parents are divorced, or abusive I want to say one thing to you guys you still have a father who is looking for you in every sec & min, the one who is in the sky the God, the father of all. He is your father, he has your back, just trust him.            Please do share your thoughts.
     
                              '' When god gives you a ''NO'', give him a ''Thank you''.
                                     He is  protecting you from less than his best'' 
                                                                                                               
Love

~firefly 

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Bulb without mother?

One day Thomas Edison came home and gave a paper to his mother. He told her,''my teacher gave this paper to me and told me to only give it to my mother.''

His Mother 's eye were tearful as she read  the letter out loud to her child; your son is a genius. This school is too small for him and doesn't have enough good teachers for training him. Please teach him yourself.

Many, many years after Edison 's mother died and he was now one of the greatest inventors of the century, one day he was looking through old family things. Suddenly he saw a folded paper in the corner of the drawer in a desk. He took it and  opened it up. On the paper it was written; your son is addled (mentally ill), we won't let him come to school any more.

Edison cried for hours and then he wrote in his diary; Thomas Alva Edison was befuddled  child, that  by a hero mother, become the genius of the century

This is the power of a mother who taught  child so well that he  invented bulb without which we can't imagine our life today. Also, he had invented movie camera, phonograph, carbon microscope 

and many more things. If that day her mother gives up, then we all can imagine what would be the results. 

  So we should not give up, I can understand nobody is born a genius, but we can become the genius
 it just we have to believe in our ability and shouldn't be afraid of doing hard work 

We all know that hard work is key to success. Whatever difficulties you are facing today it will not matter when you will reach your goal. Hold on for a  little more time.

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Being jealous is good?

'' Jealousy is just lack of self confidence''

Hello guys,

 How are you? AM hoping you are doing fine in this stressful life, especially for teenagers and don't worry, I know adults have many issues too, am not denying it 'laughs' sorry for my poor attempt of joking.

So my today's topic is being jealous and comparing ourselves with others.

I don't know that whether it's only me that feels these things or you guys too are on the same boat like me, but any how when I see others achieving cool stuffs which I also want, I get jealous easily it's not like that I wish bad things for them, but good things for me.

It is just that I feel why the hell I don't get those things. Sometime's  am envious of my friends and even relatives, I know right now am looking like a bad person, yeah this is the truth of my life. When you do a lot of hard work and still you don't get the desire result it makes me upset.

For e.g. If one gets the 1st place and you are not, though you did the hard work it torments me.

And also when you have social pressure on your shoulders and your elder's expectations the situation becomes more difficult. At this phase the comparison thing comes and boom we built them worse for ourselves. But then we are forgetting one thing that this matter should make you better not bitter. Because now I just realized and make myself stick to it that am just seeing the  rewards of others not in their hardships, maybe they are grafting much, much more than me, I don't know the articles they are sacrificing to get the work done.  I am sitting eating cookies, watching movies and not doing any productive work and still want that I should also have those things, then this is utterly stupid of me, who am I fooling around. It's necessary that we must indeed to ourself.

So now I made a peace with this, yes being jealous is a good thing because it pushes you to move your ass to do work not for daydreaming and procrastinating. If you want something go get it whatever it takes you to make it yours don't be afraid of failure because now I know if I failed then also it'll give me wisdom which, is much much important then those materialistic things. So yes by this now I am signing off.

      ~firefly

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